Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Getting Married?


I was tagged by Lim Zhi ages ago on my dream wedding. Find this topic really funny and interesting. But to me, marriage and wedding are something that seems to be so so so far away still (despite the fact that at this age, some of my friends are married and some even already have kidsssssssssssss!) I would say wedding is a super duper important event in our life, to be exact once in a lifetime event. So, I hope that the wedding that I m going to have after NNNNNNNN years, is PERFECTLY PERFECT! Hope for the same for everyone too!


1. How old are you?
- 22!

2. Are you single?
- nop nop

3. In what age do you think you’ll get married?
- Seriously, can I get married at 50????? I wanna enjoy life without the burden of kids first but I don’t wanna get Down Syndrome kids after 50 too. So HOW? HOW? HOW?

-But ok, I compromise, maybe slightly before 30?^^

4. Do you think you’ll be marrying the person you are with now?
- Insya Allah lah

5. If not, who do you want to marry?
- Out of the question^^

6. Do you want a garden/beach wedding, or the traditional church wedding?
- A blessed wedding by family members and friends of both parties.

- A traditional wedding with family members AND

-A wedding that allows me to bergila-gila with friends


7. Your ideal motif?
- A romantic one


8. Where do you plan to go on a honeymoon?
- Travel from the North Pole to the South Pole. *Sorry, I m greedy, I know.*

9. How many guests do you think you’ll invite?
-As many close relatives and friends as possible!

10. Do you want an extravagant or a simple wedding?
- Simple wedding that pleases everybody and makes everyone happy!

11. Do you want the traditional vows or something you’d make up on your own?
-Something that I make up on my own. I wonder how it will be.

12. How many layers of cake do you want to have?
- As many layers as possible, so that I will at least get to eat a piece of it after distributing the cakes to all guests. *super gluttonous*


13. Do you prefer having your reception at a hotel or at a simple place?
- Hotel, it makes things much easier.

14. When do you want to get married, evening or morning?
- Getting married in the morning, having a damn delicious dinner at night. Ps: I want to eat a lot a lot and a lot until I explode… hahahahahaha^^

15. You’d rather have your reception outdoors or indoors?
- Outdoors if it is not rainy and if it is not too hot!

16. Do you like a grand entrance for your groom?
- Wahhh.. how to define grand entrance? But I guess I don like it.

17. No question? Can I add one myself?

18. Name the song/tune you’d like played at your wedding.

- I m very greedy, I want MANY songs to be played. Below is the list:

- Vincent (Starry Starry Night) by Don Mac Lean. To be sang by XXX

- Etude No. 3 La Campanella by Franz Liszt. To be played by my big bro, Andy Ooi (Even though he can’t play it yet!!!)

- I Believe by David Tao. To be sang by my old old friends in Perlis

- Waiting In The Weeds by The Eagles

- Felitsa and Nightingale by Yanni

- Scarborough Fair by The Celtic Women

- While My Guitar Gently Weeps Ukulele’s version by Jake Shimabukuro

- The list goes on, add more next time!


19. Are you a morning person or a night person?
- Super night person, I m a legendary bat (In Hokkien, a “Bipo”) you know.

20. Do you want a solemn ceremony or a light one?
- Lazy to think, let the parents of both side decide lah

21. What age do you want to get married?
- Oh! I thought I mentioned it? But I think slightly before 30.

22. Describe your ideal husband.
- Domestic (Cook for me sometimes), able to cheer me up, cheerful character, didn’t have perempuan simpanan^^, caring, romantic, not square, not bookworm,

23. Do you prefer fine dining or just the normal spoon & fork/knife?
- This one I don’t really care, as long as we have yummy food!

24. Champagne or red wine?
- Cocktails maybe, I hate red wine.

25. Honeymoon right after the wedding or days after the wedding?
- Anytime that can maximize the enjoyment

26. Money or household items?
- Don’t understand…zzzz

27. Who will pay for the bills?
- Both!

28. Are you ready for married life?
- Definitely NOOO! Can’t imagine myself with kids at all.

29. Do you think you will still be a virgin until you get married?
- Insya Allah lah.

30. Will you always be true to your wife/husband?
- Definitely!! Or else I wouldn’t marry him! (Borrowed from Lim Zhi)

31. How many kids do you want?
- 2 to 3! Want both boys and girls!


Can I tag some guys? Want to know what guys think in this issue^^

- Won Lek the Anonymous and Benson

7 comments:

iamlz said...

Wah qx, u sounded so excited la!! XD Muahahah sweeeeet nia u, already plan so much la aiks aiks..ur kfc sure melt la seeing this! :P

And YEA!! :D Good idea to tag guy!!

p/s: I almost forgot I tagged u ady, that's like N yrs ago ady lor..but better late than never la! ;) Thx for responding!

melwy said...

aiyohh qx qx... but like wat lz said better late than never, hehe....
and remember to invite us to ur wedding next time!! :DDD

Anonymous said...

26. Money or household items?
- Don’t understand…zzzz

This means:

我们亚洲文化,尤其是马来西亚,当我们去婚宴典礼,我们都是带着红包前往。我们给新人的“礼物”是钱。而且差不多都已经有了一定的规矩。比如说,请两个人就给一百,请一个人就给五十这样。

可是西方的文化是不一样的。新人结婚之前,他们会大大方方写出他们需要的东西,比如说Argos Item no. 55633的餐具或者直接写下Arndale里面,Sports Direct Rooney穿的那件球衣。

然后把想要的礼物广告天下给宴客们。宴客们可以选择购买这些礼物,也可以两手空空过去,也可以买其它的东西。宴客们还可以Share买一个很贵很贵他们要求的东西。比如说Rooney的球衣卖三百镑,新人们却又很想要。

这个时候,如果有一百个宴客都互相认识,他们就可以合在一起购买这件三百镑的球衣送新人。一个人只需要给三镑而已。便宜很多。这就是西方这种文化的好处。

所以这个问题是问,你要收钱as in 红包?or 你要收家庭用具as in 礼物?

Anonymous said...

http://wonlek.multiply.com/journal/item/190/190

功课做了。

Qing Xi said...

Lz,
yooo... If I m really getting married, then excited la. Right now, "talking about 'marriage' on paper" not syiok enough:P
n ohhh.. really have to say sorry! Have been very busy! Should have written it much earlier one! sighh.. hope that I can blog more^^

Melissa,
n lol.. of coz will invite one! you all dont forget to invite me too! Make sure the wedding cake is huge ahh, I want to eat... hahahahaha

Won Lek,
Well explained! Thank you very much. Understand it now. So the answer to question 26 is MONEYYYYYYYY! I think it is more practical as I have weird likings, don't wanna give others headache buying gifts for me. ^^
And Won Lek! I have read the post I think 2 days ago. But I cant reply, havent open a new account for Multiply yet oo! I have been constantly reading ahhh.. so keep keep writing oh^^

Qing Xi said...
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melwy said...

oi qingxi, lama tak update sudah...
tagged u, must ans ooo